Parent’s inclination often is to seek help for their teen on the assumption that the teen has to do all the changing. The reality is both caregivers and teens will need to make changes …
Imagine — Tamara is 15 years old. She and her mother started arguing when Tamara was 12. They argue about seemingly everything – clothes, curfews, chores, homework, friends – you name it and they’ve argued about it. Their arguments have escalated over the last year. Mom doesn’t trust Tamara to make good decisions, especially now that Tamara is dating a 16 year old who just got his driver’s license. Tamara says her mother never listens and doesn’t trust her. Tamara often storms out of the house when it gets too overwhelming. Two times, she has stayed overnight with a girlfriend without calling. Mom feels out of control and hopeless to change the situation. Mom decides to find help –- for Tamara.
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I spend my days teaching clients how to use skills … to reduce tough symptoms of depression. One day, one of those same clients taught me a valuable lesson — it’s not about the individual skills, it’s about what they can do in combination.
A mighty oak will not fall in one swing of the ax; a formidable foe will not fall after a single punch; a powerful army will not raise the white flag after one shot fired; and a chess master will not resign after the very first move. In that same regard, depression will not be quelled following a single application of a therapeutic intervention – not a fact I like very much, but a fact nonetheless.
As a therapist who specializes in treating intense and unrelenting depression and anxiety often associated with chronic mental illness and personality disorders, I spend my days teaching clients how to use skills like deep breathing, distraction, positive activity scheduling, thought restructuring, and mindfulness to reduce tough symptoms of depression. One day, one of those same clients taught me a valuable lesson — it’s not about the individual skills, it’s about what they can do in combination.
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